Thursday, August 2, 2007

It's All About Lust, Baby!


Hah! I could've told them the answer!
I can't believe researchers in Washington had to interview 237 respondents just to find out WHY people have sex.
I could have told them the answer. Jesus Lord in Heaven!
Yeah, baby, yeah. It is LUST. Ja, Oui, Da, Si, Yes! Yeah! Yep! Uh-uh!
Listen to this. And I quote:
After exhaustively compiling a list of the 237 reasons why people have sex, researchers found that young men and women get intimate for mostly the same motivations.
It's more about lust in the body than a love connection in the heart.

College-aged men and women agree on their top reasons for having sex — they were attracted to the person, they wanted to experience physical pleasure and "it feels good," according to a peer-reviewed study in the August edition of Archives of Sexual Behavior. Twenty of the top 25 reasons given for having sex were the same for men and women.

So, people. Forget the gender stereotypes ... that men only want sex for the physical pleasure and women want love.
Remember the idea that men are from Mars and women from Venus? Perish that!
Haha -- "the more we look, the more we find similarity" -- couldn't be closer to the truth.
You and I are the same, buddy.
We both lust for each other's body. And yeah, yeah, we can love when we want to.

Deal with it, babe!

12 comments:

NURAINA A SAMAD said...

Eva,
Hmmm.... perhaps they should interview 200 more.
what can I say escept that -- this must have always been the way the cookie crumbles.

eva's haven said...

nuraina: you'd better believe it..
cheers!

Rockybru said...

They needed a survey to learn that? What a waste of money and time. Of course it's lust and I know this applies not just for the young ones or those in college. It applies to everyone, from the penarik beca to the prime minister.

You better believe it.

eva's haven said...

ahirudin,
oh, i have always believed it. it's the body, and the sheer physical pleasure and satisfaction from the, uh, sex.
Love comes later, sometimes not at all.
that's why it is possible to have sex without any emotional attachment.

jeez..i've known that for ever.

shar101 said...

Without the lust factor, you ain't gonna get that awesome orgasm.

More lust, bigger 'woooohoooo'.

And then, you go for seconds and thirds.

Having a sense humor during love-making is a big turn-on too.

Something like "Either you're nervous or tight" and instinctively, she squeezes you just that little extra.

Ooops..Is this blog PG18?

Pak Zawi said...

Eva, you were right. The answer was so obvious. They did the survey cos they got a kick when they see the reaction of the respondent when the questions were posed to them.
People in Washington would do all sort of silly things.

Anonymous said...

eva,

not true, not true.
they interviewed a lot of sex maniacs, that's who they've been talking to.
men -- yes - all about sex sex sex, hot bods etc.
women -- aaah oooh... love love love.
and the Bbeatles were really women, i tell ya.

eva's haven said...

shar,
ooh,my honeybunch. i knew you were quite er... mmmm, luvver.
seconds and thirds... hey, my kinda man.
we're drinkin' the same coffee, i mean, vodka, sweets.
i luvv the lussst,
and -- this is an all-adults-blog, hot staff, i mean, stuff.

i'll make sure I'll see ya around when i'm in Kay El, sweeetness.

eva's haven said...

zawi,
sir, elementary, isn't it? they can't fool everyone. especially malaysians! no can do!

eva's haven said...

the gypsy,

oh well, gyps.. if you insist. to each her own! someone said that. I'm brendanising!

zorro said...

Eva in Heaven, they know it is LUST too.... the most meaningful and terse definition ever....JUST LIKE THE LUST FOR KNOWLEDGE. But they have to earn their keep....the more they interview, the more credible the report.
Eva Heaven, you are giving my buddy Shar cold-sweaty nights....have a heart will ya? He has taken up soliloquizing!....and you dont want to hear it ok?...but I am recording it for safe-keeping....and in case you need to know when you hit KL.

eva's haven said...

zorro,
Lust...love... i mix them up sometimes. Can't tell which is what when you're in the throes of passion. Now, sex has got to be about passion.

lusting, loving... seconds, thirds..
your buddy Shar has got me hot and sweaty on very cold nights, man.

Let me ask you this, Zorro. How tall is Shar?
Cause I'm kinda tall..
But, hey...never been a problem...